The effects of divorce never end, particularly when there are children involved. Deal with your stuff now! Notice the vice your using to cope, heavy drinking, drugs and causal sex. If your not careful they become addictions fast. If this is you get help now!
Today’s wedding. Both parents of bride and groom divorced and repartnered. Father of the groom drunk before the ceremony started, would not take his seat. Mother of the bride cracked it about where she was sitting. Even though my couple had spent hours devising a seating plan. The feeling in the room was terrible, a divided family mostly not speaking to each other. I ended up yelling at the mother of the bride that this was not her wedding day it was her daughter’s so have some respect! She quietly took her seat after that.
I hid everything from my couple and they did have a wonderful ceremony. I left knowing I could blog log to calm my rage. My ex also ruined my life but I will never let my divorce ruin my daughter’s life’s he has taken enough. Rise above everything and allow your children the freedom to live their lives unburdened by yours.
Divorce its just so hard for the kids. when my parents separated, I was so doomed and very disappointed. But I just have to accept things as they are meant to happen. Good thing I got this planner/organizer from co-Parenting-Manager (http://4help.to/plan) which really helped me cope up with the situation. Their website is also perfect for parents and kids who are experiencing the dilemma of divorce.
ReplyDeleteHi Jaypee
ReplyDeleteParents often have no idea the damage they are doing and forget to support their children, my thoughts go out to you. In you over coming their divorce you will learn resilence, and understand the depths of love. Thanks for the tip, I will read the planner, their site looks great. How old were you? Your blog is great, if you like, post me a photo about divoce, what it ment to you I will post it and link it back.
Blessings Lea